Shocking Revelation!! My Wife Is Dating My Pastor – Husband Cries Out

Worried by his wife’s adulterous acts, Mr Kolawole Okeeyi, a businessman, on Wednesday approached the Igando Customary Court in Lagos to terminate his 31-year-old marriage.
Okeeyi, 51, accused his wife, Funmilayo, with whom he had five children of infidelity.
“My wife is having an affair with my pastor, I got to know when I did not have credit on my phone and wanted to use her phone to call our pastor to report her for starving my mother of food.
“I picked her phone and I saw on the screen “sent message”. I mistakenly clicked on it and the message opened, I saw several love messages my wife sent and received from our pastor.
“I showed her the messages when she came in, but she begged me, I seized the phone and later confronted our pastor with those text messages, but he told me to do my worst.
“I also caught her with my brother in a hotel in Oyo State; I wanted to ignore them, but I later confronted them so that they will not deny later,” he said.
The petitioner said his wife was after his life and that he had been attacked on two occasions.
“In Aug. 20, 2013, I got to the front of my gate, as I honked for my children to open the gate, suddenly three men jumped down from a motorcycle, pointing a gun at me.
“But for the timely intervention of the police, I would have been killed. When I entered my house, I told my wife what happened, but she did not say anything.
“Four months later, while coming from work, three men intercepted me, pointing a gun at me to come down and enter the booth, I complied and they drove me off.
“But luckily for me, my phone rang, one of them picked it, the caller addressed me as pastor and said that I should come to the church early that I will be ministering, but I am not a pastor.
“One of the guys said that they should not kill me that I am a pastor; that in the bible God said that they should not touch his anointed or do his prophet harm.
“After a hot argument among them, they stopped the car, stripped me naked and absconded with my car.
“A good Samaritan gave me clothes to wear. When I got home, I told my wife again about the incident, but she said nothing.
“That same 2013, my only three buses that plied Port-Harcourt, Akure and Abeokuta were involved in accident and were condemned, I again informed my wife, but no response from her,” he said.
Okeeyi said because of these calamities and threat to his life, he ran away from the house he built same year to start squatting with friends.
He pleaded with the court to dissolve the union that he was no longer in love as his life was no longer safe.
However, Funmilayo, 43, trader, denied all the allegations. She said she was not having an affair with any man.
“Those text messages on my phone were forged; I never sent nor received any love messages from our pastor.
“My husband saw me and his brother in a hotel, but we are not dating, his brother just followed me to book for a room when I went for a burial in Oyo State.
She accused her husband’s family of battery.
“When I was pregnant for our fifth baby, my husband’s family stormed our house, accusing me of having an affair, they beat me to pulp, in fact, I don’t know how I got to the hospital,” she said.
The mother of five boys begged the court not to grant her husband’s wish as she was still in love.
The Court President, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, adjourned the case to Nov. 29 for further hearing.
NAN

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Guys Be Warned!!! See List Of All The Girls You Should Avoid Because They Will Ruin Your Life

This guy with the twitter handle @vinnycrack  made a list of all the girls you should stay far away from so he shared it on his twitter page.
Trust me going through it, it all seems to make some sense, but like they say a word is enough for the wise, he has only played his part by advising guys, so let “those who have ears let them hear”
As written by:  ‘him I’m gonna make a thread of the girls who will ruin your life’
We have warned you o……. Oya see below…..
1. A girl that calls you ‘Daddy wa’:
1) any girl that calls you daddy will ruin your life and make you an actual daddy
2. A girl that has curly and disgruntled hair:
2) any girl that has curly hair will ruin your life. how they gonna straighten out your life if they can’t even do it to their hair
3. Half caste women/Hispanic women:
3) any Hispanic girl will ruin your life. they harness the power or Satan to make you weak
4. A woman that laughs when she hungry, run she is Patience Ozokwo:
4) any girl that laughs when they’re mad will ruin your life. She’s laughing about your death. Run while you can
5. The freaky girls:
5) any girl that likes being choked during sex will ruin your life. you’ll get life in jail cause she died tryna be “freaky”
6. Sporty/ Fit fam women:
6) any girl that plays sports will ruin your life. they can jump to the conclusions faster cause they’re in shape
7. Women that wear makeup:
7) any girl that wears the makeup that makes them look like a sexy glazed donut. she gonna ruin your life and look delicious
8. any girl that speaks all languages
8) She can speak all languages? What are you still waiting for, run, run, run:
9. Avoid girls with huge forehead at all costs:
9) any girl with a big forehead will ruin your life. they store all the evil in their big ass head
10. Girls with perfect eyebrows:
10) any girl with perfect eyebrows will ruin your life. they gonna thread and wax your soul away
11. If she wears choker, she will take you to Soka in Ibadan:
11) any girl that wears a choker will ruin your life. they’re depriving themselves of oxygen so they can practice arguing in the afterlife
12. any girl with green eyes
12) any girl with green eyes will ruin your life. they be looking like sexy bulbasaurs ready to evolve your life into ruined
13. If she plays Pokemon Go, you are finished:
14) any girl that calls you papi will ruin your life. that word triggers a hormone in a mans that causes him to forget how to pull out
15) any girl that plays pokemon go will ruin your life. you gonna catch feelings while she’s just trying to catch em all
16) any girl that has selfies sucking a lollipop or sticking her tongue out. you won’t pull out she’s gonna ruin your life
When you see them, run, run, run!!! Don’t say we did not warn you o.
You can as well DROP YOURS BELOW!

Written by: Post Alone @vinnycrack

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4 Shocking Things that Happen to You When You Stop Having S*x

S*x is very beneficial to the human body although premarital pleasure has been described as a sin by religious bodies.

 

S*x could be used as a viable substitute for physical exercises according to medical experts.

 

During orgasm, there is a hormone named oxytocin a.k.a 'cuddle hormone' that gushes into your system. It’s the one responsible for the joy and the general feel good sensation coursing throughout your body after good s*x.

As interesting as the previous paragraph might be. Not every lady can have a fulfilling s*x life. These can be due to several reasons such as personal decision informed by religion or spirituality, plain bad s*x partners or whichever reason it might be. Ladies do also have dry periods of s*x. While some people think if a guy doesn’t have s*x for a while, his sperm might transform into tadpoles, which is totally false.

There are a few things that might happen if a lady stops having s*x, especially with the sexual organ itself, the v*gina:

1. Sex is painful

Having s*x for the first time or after a long period of time will be very distasteful, the pain can be severe.  The most common side effect of a prolonged celibate stretch is painful intercourse, says Brett Worly, MD an ob-gyn at the Ohio State University's Wexner Medical Center. Just as it hurts when you go for a run after a long stint of couch-potato-ing, you might feel some pain relieving a dry spell, "because your muscles aren't used to having s*x."

The risk is even greater if your celibacy occurred because of something unpleasant, like an ugly breakup. "Psychological issues weighing on a person's mind can cause pain, too," says Worly. 

The cure: Lubrication (the bottled kind is fine if you're not producing enough on your own), foreplay, and communication are imperative. Worly advises couples to start slowly, to "ensure there's no pain, and that it feels good." And if it starts to hurt, stop. Try again another time, using even more foreplay, and even more lube. S*x isn't a no-pain/no-gain type of activity.

2. V*gina Lockdown

The better looking sister of Shutdown, v*ginal pains can be very  transient, its possible for it to be cured with a good measure of endurance, foreplay and lubrication. While unluckily in some cases the constriction of the v*ginal muscle can be very bad that penetration is so tough even from a tampon or a finger.

 

The condition is called V*ginismus. It can be an aftermath of r*pe or abuse.

If this happens to you, get help right away. "I recommend seeing a gynecologist to get a diagnosis and a recommendation for a pelvic-floor physical therapist," says s*x therapist Holly Richmond, PhD.

 

She explains that the pelvic-floor physical therapist will put you through a series of gentle exercises. "The therapist will also prescribe a series of dilators to insert, gradually increasing in size."
 
3. Gone Orgasm

Orgasms are so terrific but if you’ve stopped having orgasms for a long period of time, your body is wired in such a way that it stops asking for it. Some people might be happy with us because it helps their abstinence lifestyle, it will make you lose all the benefits that s*x gives.

To get your groove back, Richmond advises a regular masturbation practice. See, masturbations isn’t as bad as people claim them to be. "Orgasms are just good," she says. "By yourself or with a partner—your body will thank you for all the endorphins."

"People who are comfortable masturbating tend to be more thoughtful and giving lovers," Richmond says.

4. V*ginal atrophy

This would happen to folks who see s*x as less important after they’re out of their childbearing years, but that’s not the case, people.

 

The production of estrogen drops quickly during menopause. The v*gina and vulva have more estrogen receptors than any other part of the body, says Barn DePree, MD.

 

In post menopausal women, it's "use it or lose it," since an inactive s*x life can spur v*ginal atrophy. That means the walls of the v*gina dry out and become thin, so they're more apt to tear.

Like the other professionals consulted, DePree recommends that women who don't have a partner practice self-love on the regular. And if there is a partner in the picture, get busy. How much s*x is enough? "I have a 75-year-old patient who has sex two or three times a week," says DePree.

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Things you need to know before dating a single parent

Who says you can't date that amazing single mom or single dad? Forget what society says, there's nothing stopping you!

If you met someone amazing and you'd love to be with them, you should not let anything come between you both, right?

Even if they have a child or two, you might still want to proceed into a relationship with them and that's just totally adorable, really.

Before you get into that relationship, though, these are the things you should be prepared for:
Their defenses will be up

Nothing brings out a person’s protective instincts more than the presence of an offspring.

They have not just themselves to watch after, but their kids, too, so do not expect a head-over-heels kind of love like you might have experienced with other people in the past.

Once a single parent notices that you may not be good with their kid or you’re not really stepmom or stepdad material, the relationship may not progress to anything more meaningful than a physical relationship.


You won’t be priority

Single parents apparently had their lives going before they met you, and you cannot expect them to drop everything just because they met you.

Their kids, responsibilities, job and all that will still be heavy on their mind even after they meet you.
Watch out for the ex

You will also have to live with the [constant] presence of the ex who cannot be cut out because of his/her interest in the kids.

Be ready to have them around, maybe a few times more than you’d like.

The friends and relatives

The single parent’s loved ones will definitely be on the lookout for people who might feed on their vulnerability.

So, a little resentment and aloofness at the beginning of the relationship from close friends and family is not totally out of place.

You should be ready to win their trust and acceptance by being totally good with your single-parent partner.
Don’t be too eager to meet the kid

Many single parents know that their kids are a vulnerability of theirs that might be exploited.

Therefore, try very hard to temper your eagerness to meet the kid so as not to appear as someone too eager to please or someone looking for a shortcut to the mother's heart.

Meet her on a personal level. get to know her biggest fears and concerns, let her share her dreams and hopes, flirt with her...

However, you should show genuine interest in the kids and charm them when you finally meet them.


Don’t give up if the kids don’t like you

As much as you want the kid or kids on your side, they are not your primary focus.

So, do not give up if they do not take to you instantly. Children are easily swayed, and with time, you will have them on your side.

So, do not drop your interest in the mom just because the kids do not like you.

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Relationship Tips 5 ways to know he's only stringing you along, he's not really interested

He might not be taking you so serious. You deserve to know where you stand, at least.

How do you know where you really stand with a man?

How can you be sure to an extent that you are indeed your boo’s boo?

Are you sure he is not just playing along, waiting to kick you to the side and get into a relationship with his ‘real girlfriend’?

If you aren’t sure, these 5 highlighted points below will help you know if indeed your boyfriend sees you as his girlfriend.
He doesn’t reach out if you do not

If we are being honest with ourselves, you know, even as you are reading this article that the person you think is your boo hardly reaches out to you and if y9u do not call or text him, he wouldn’t reach out to you. All the time
He’s never jealous about you

How does it happen in a normal balanced relationship that a guy does not ever get jealous about you?

I really do not care how calm and collected the guy is, there definitely will be an exhibition of healthy jealousy when it comes to you.

If a guy does not ever get jealous about you, even when he absolutely has reasons to ask questions and all that, he could be letting you know that you are free to do what you want, because as far as he uis concerned, what you have is just temporary anyway.
He says he’s not into labels

When a guy says he’s not into labels, it means no two things- you are simply not seen as his babe.

Forget the grand explanation he gives or how he tries to wriggle out of it with some silly explanation.

You are simply not as special to him as he might be to you.
He doesn’t flaunt you AT ALL

There have been several office events, many occasions that required him to go with a companion but he does not take you. Never.

Why? He wanted to appear single and very willing to mingle at those events— that’s why.

He sees you as a steady supply of sex

Again we get to the issue of the opportunistic knacks. The one he sees as his ‘sare wa gba’ [This is an emerging Yoruba slang for which loosely translates to Booty Call.]

As a matter of fact, this might just be the reason why he is even making the little attempts to stay in touch and keep you around.

Hence, whenever he manages to create little time, [or sometimes after you have pestered him for a date or hangout] he wants not much else asides touching and torching that body as much as he can.

In conclusion, I need to add, there are no two ways to it. If you ever feel you are not sure of where you stand with a man.

You should ask, no matter how awkward it is. Even if the answer is going to hurt you real bad, you really should still ask, except you are enjoying the uncertainty.

Then it’s just totally fine.

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OPEN CONFESSION: An Efik Lagos-Base Housewife Complains About Her Husband: “He’s No Longer Sexually Active

Hi.

My name is Nene, a trader trading in one of the biggest shopping mall in Lagos.

I am married to my husband of two years and the truth is that even though I had enjoyed every bit of the relationship right till we got married, I am beginning to get frustrated right now because of one main issue I have been battling with.

And that is when my love making session with my husband started going all the way down.

It got to a point that he spills his milk immediately after 3 minutes.

This is a big concern for me and I will tell you why!!!

As an Efik indigene, once we get attracted to one man that we give our heart to, who treats us right and also has the same sexual appetite that we have, WE STICK TO THEM no questions asked.

Yes. It is known that we have a high sexual appetite and as such we need men that would be able to handle us real well.

That’s why we are always caring to our men;

We make sure they eat the best meal when they come back from work;

We do our best to keep the home steady and sparkling right in the way it should be;

And at the end of the day, we simply expect our men to come right into the room and reward us with our most price treasure that we long for.

That’s Efik women for you.

It’s in our blood.

So that’s why when my hubby started misbehaving and can’t seem to get it right again.

It became a big problem for me.

Now one thing you need to know about us is that sometimes, our craving always give in to us having to look outside of our marriage and we do it secretly very well once we get a man that would perform the duties that our husbands has refused to do.

But I love and care for my hubby so much that I decided taking matters in own hands and went out looking for solutions so that I can start enjoying what I have been missing.

Did I find anything?

Yes. I actually found a lot of options online which gave various pills and contortions for helping to deal with the issues that I wanted to help my hubby with. I tried most of them all and they all failed until I stumbled on kelvin’s page where he talked about this superb natural 2 in 1 solution that has helped several Nigerians.

What made me more interested was the fact that it was NAFDAC approved and with other international approval. I also saw that I was not the only one experiencing this issue.

So I immediately got a pack.

Now let me tell you this;

If I had known that I would turn my husband into a raging beast that would not stop, I would have at least prepared my mind for this super awesome experience.

So here is what happened;

When the package was delivered to me, I knelt down in front of my husband and poured my heart to him on why he needs to make use of this package.

You know men with their ego. Thanks to God that he understood.

So he started with this package and even though one of the criteria given was not to have sex for a period of 2 week.

We both agreed on it and I went ahead with my business.

Like I said, I never knew what I was about to unleash.

Just around the 19th day. My hubby came back from work unannounced around 9pm. I was sleeping as at the time.

He simply came right at me on the bed, removed his clothes and jumped right in. https://goo.gl/brLgCG

Truthfully, what happened next was actually the most intense love making session I have ever experienced.

We kept at this for hours non-stop till past mid night.

And that was the beginning of the smile in our marriage.

Now fast forward 6 months after… We are still at it with no signs of slowing down https://goo.gl/brLgCG

Even right after He had finished the package.

Now I don’t know what to call this. But I will advise every man out there reading this to visit Mr. Kelvin’s page below here to also get their own 2 in 1 solution if they want to get the kind of experience I was able to get for my husband. It truly works.

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3 sure signs she’s using you for MUGU

Men are usually painted as the mean ones in relationships. They are blamed for cheating, being disrespectful and generally taking the piss. However, these misdeeds are not limited to guys alone.

Some girls can wash and hang a guy dry, clear his bank account, leave him broke and on to the next one.

It takes a really smart guy to detect signs he is being played. Especially when he is in love with the girl, his mumu button is activated and only a deliverance or friends intervention can save him.

So guys, before you burn a hole in your pocket and your heart, study the signs that let you know if she’s real or just playing your ass.

1. Always the damsel in distress

Now this is a major warning for guys with a hero complex, always wanting to be her knight is shinning armour; if she calls you to save her all the time then you want to start hear alarm bells. You are her personal chauffeur, her go-to “best friend” when she has nothing better to do, her cover-up buddy (always covering up her ass, even when she doesn’t let you in on the full story). If you notice this, don’t panic just be aware of your position in the life of the girl you might be thinking is your potential wife.

2. On a date, she comes out with all her family members

Whenever you have a date or plan to hang out, she shows up with all her friends and family members without prior notice. Don’t be deceived, you are not getting introduced to her circle, she has brought them so you can feed them all. If you are loaded and have no problem with picking up the bill for seven human beings you most likely never met before then, go ahead but don’t say we didn’t warn you.

3. When both of you are alone, her mood changes

Aside from placing you in permanent friend zone, she will tactically make sure you don’t get any opportunity to share your true feelings with her or get intimate. Once both of you are alone, she wants her space and becomes a super nagger. It is only about her and how the world is against her, all to stop you from trying to escape the cage she has locked you in.

Share with us other signs that tell a girl is using you in the comment box bellow.

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The Number 1 Reason Why Women Cheat – A Must Read For All Nigerian Men

If you are a man and you have a wife or you are in a serious relationship, then I want you to invest the next 5-10 minutes of your time to read this article right now.

And here’s why…

According to a study conducted by condom manufacturer Durex in which 29,000 people in 36 countries were interviewed, Nigerian Women were considered to be the most unfaithful in the world!

As a Nigerian man, you might dismiss this survey study as untrue because we are a religious country with lots of morals.

However, Durex may not be far from the truth actually.

In a recent interview with The Nation Newspaper, A a Lagos based DNA expert, Mr Ayodele Adeniyi gave a shocking statistics that…

“3 Out Of 10 Nigerian Men Are Not Biological Fathers Of Their Children”

It means that, a lot of Nigerian women are now having extra marital affairs and cheating on their partners and spouses.

Not only that, women are better at hiding their infidelity and they are more likely to lie about it and less likely to get caught.

This should concern you, especially if you are married or in a strong relationship with your spouse right now.

What this means is that…

It is possible for your woman to engage in infidelity and cheat on you if care is not taken due to some reasons.

So, What Could Make Your Woman Cheat On You Under Your Nose Without You Finding Out?

There are various reasons why a woman will cheat on her man such as…

Being in a distant relationship with their partner
Lack of Money to make the relationship better
Lack Of Excitement or emotional connection
Revenge on the mans infidelity
Boredom and peer pressure etc

But there is one other major #1 reason why women cheat…

And even though it’s very obvious, most Nigerian Men don’t know it.

And strange enough, many women are very secretive and won’t tell you the REAL truth, because they don’t want to hurt you.

So What Exactly Is The #1 Reason Why Women Cheat?

The #1 unquestionable reason why so many women cheat on their partner is….

They Are Not Well Satisfied In Bed!

To give you an understand of what I mean, I want you to read these comment left by a woman on Linda Ikeji’s Gossip Blog Recently:

And here’s another one by a woman who is not getting satisfaction from her husband at home…

If you are a man, and you are unable to give your woman a deeply intense and soul piercing reaction in bed, like the picture below…

Then your woman will Be unsatisfied, and she will long for pleasure because she is not getting it from you.

If you do not satisfy your woman in bed because of a poor sex life, you might force her to cheating and someone else will do the work for you without your knowledge.

if you are unable to satisfy your woman, here’s the major causes of why you are unable to…

Number 1: Very Weak Or Soft Erection

If your erection suddenly get weak after few thrust, and you are unable to get erection strong enough to penetrate deep inside her.

Number 2: Low Energy And Low Stamina

That is when you find yourself getting extremely tired like a very old man halfway into love making with your woman and you are unable to continue.

Number 3: Decrease In Libido Or Sexual Desire

That is when your sex drive is VERY low and your urge to have sex with your woman is ZERO despite how attractive she is.

Number 4: You are a 1-Minute Man And Can’t Go More Than 1 Round

That is when you ejaculate too quickly within 1-5 minutes and you are unable to “wake up” your manhood to continue love making.

Number 5: Lack The Knowledge Of How To Satisfy A Woman In Bed

That is when you don’t even know how to “finger her brain” or have the skills to make her enjoy her time with you in bed.

Number 6: Have A Small Penis That Can’t Do The Job

That is when your penis is very small and makes women run away from you and even the one that stays can’t “feel” you inside her at all.

If you are a man and you are reading this article right now…

And you suffer from 1 or more of these problems I listed above, then today is the day you should do something about it.

I am going to walk you through how to fix them just like I did when I had these same problem myself.

The 4 Powerful Things You Have To Do If You Want To be Able To Give Your Woman BODY MELTING SEX That Will Get Her To Love You And Have Deep Respect For You

Number 1: You must Overcome PREMATURE EJACULATION

You need to know how to stay longer inside her when you are making love. If you do not do this, you will leave her very unsatisfied.

Luckily, I found a safe, natural supplement solution to this and I use this personally myself and it has helped me go from being a 1-minute man to lasting 40 minutes in bed with my madam.

If you want this natural supplement for yourself to cure premature ejaculation, tell me where to send you the details by clicking here

Number 2: You Need to Increase Your Energy And Stamina

Most men undergo a lot of stress as a result of their jobs, family issues and life generally.

There are exercises and specific foods you need to eat that will increase your energy and boost your stamina.

Number 3: You need To Boost Your Manhood

You need to know exactly what to do to boost the fullness of your manhood inside her and make her feel you deep inside.

And you can boost your manhood by getting this natural therapy

Number 4: You Need To Know Her Pleasure Zones

A woman has about 20 of these pleasure zones on her body and you need to know where they are and exactly how to touch touch and STIMULATE it to take her to pleasure heaven.

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I hope you’ve learnt something in today’s article.

Thanks for reading.

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7 health problems of being overweight and natural way out

The WHO defines overweight and obesity as abnormal or excessive fat that may impair health. It is important to note that overweight and obesity are two (2) different classes or categories of excessive fat accumulation.

A measure known as the body mass index (BMI) is most commonly used for this classification. The BMI is calculated using an individual’s height in metres (m) and weight in kilograms (kg) with the formula, weight/height x height.

BMI between 18.5 and 24.9 is considered normal weight
• BMI between 25.0 and 29.9 is considered overweight
• BMI of 30.0 and above is considered obese

N.B – it is very important to note that the BMI is not a measure of the degree of fatness of an individual.
Being overweight predisposes an individual to non-communicable diseases such as:
• Heart diseases
• Cerebrovascular accident (stroke)
• Diabetes (High Blood Sugar)

High Blood Pressure (Hypertension)
• Osteoarthritis
Fertility problems for women and erectile dysfunction for men
• Some forms of cancer(endometrial, breast and colon).

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While the disadvantages of an increased BMI (overweight and obese) cannot be over flogged, BMI below normal weight range (underweight) is also not healthy and can predispose an individual to:
• Weak immune system
• Anemia
• Fragile bones
• Fatigue (tiredness)
• Fertility problems for women

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A healthy lifestyle including a balanced diet, physical activity especially the right amount of exercise, and regular calculation or check of BMI is required to save an individual from being overweight and underweight.
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Ladies, Open Your Eyes! 10 Things Only a Real Man Will Do When He's in a Relationship With You

There are certain things only a real man will do to his woman when he is in a relationship with her. These are some of those things.

 

 

Some women feel a “Real Man” doesn’t exist—that he is impossible to find. Other women do not want someone like him. On the other hand, some men think they are the very definition of a “Real Man.” Other men feel there is no such thing. One thing is true, though: Those men who think they are the very definition of a “Real Man” and those who think they are not are both very often wrong.

 

If you want to know if you are a real man or are in a relationship with a real man, watch the actions. A real man behaves so different from the selfish frat boy types you see everywhere that you can’t fail to notice the difference. He is a gentleman—good for more than just the first few months. Importantly, a real man does things so well when he is in a relationship that you just have to love him and his style.

 

1. A real man loves and respects his woman for who she is.

 

He might not love her all the time, but he loves her. Not just her body, her possessions and her status, but all of her! He’s aware that as beautiful as her body is now, physical beauty fades. He therefore focuses his love and attention on her true beauty, which is found within her sensibilities and personality. He treats her like a lady, with dignity and respect. He doesn’t mind cooking her favorite meal, taking her out to wine and dine and paying the bills. He also expects love and respect from her.

 

2. A real man commits to the relationship fully.

 

He doesn’t cheat. He is loyal to his partner and knows that relationships take hard work to keep strong and healthy. His affection to his woman is a full-time commitment. He nourishes and strengthens the relationship through ongoing, honest communication and team work. When you are with a real man, you know you can trust him. He will stay faithful no matter what and expects you to do the same.

 

3. A real man protects his partner physically and emotionally.

 

Not that a woman can’t protect and defend herself, but he is there for her anyway. He protects her in different ways, including providing financial security and comforting her and making her feel everything will be okay. He is ready to throw a good punch if necessary to defend her from physical aggressors. However, he thinks before he acts. He never makes a move until he is sure all details and specifics are in order. His moves are calculated, deliberate and assured. Abuse of any kind is never an issue when you are with him. He is considerate and treats everyone kindly.

 

4. A real man fulfills his partner mentally and sexually.

 

He knows the majority of time in any relationship is spent doing nonphysical, nonsexual things. Besides whispering to her how beautiful she is or how he is going to make hot, passionate love to her when he gets back home in the evening, he also engages her in meaningful discussions about life, plans with her for the future, and cracks jokes to lighten and liven moments together. He displays an awareness, intelligence and sensitivity that makes his actions not only timely, but also genuinely charming.

 

5. A real man takes the first initiative—he leads.

 

That’s because he wears the pants in the relationship. Of course, the pants are picked out by his woman, but he is still the leader. He steps forward and addresses issues in the relationship boldly. He does not wait for the woman to solve problems. If he is not sure how to address an issue, he seeks help or advice. Some men play it safe and avoid taking the lead because they don’t want to be criticized, but not a real man. A real man says, “I’ll handle it,” and takes the initiative to solve the issue in his way.

 

6. A real man steps up and makes the tough decisions.

 

He knows real men are decisive and he makes decisions in the relationship. He does not leave every other decision to his partner. When making decisions, he seeks to understand her views (and that of other concerned parties) and is flexible enough to factor in those other views in his decisions. He does not seek to control people, but rather to improve their situation. If you are reluctant to make decisions, you are likely self-conscious and afraid of making mistakes. Women dislike indecisive, cowardly men.

 

7. A real man takes responsibility for his actions and decisions.

 

He does not shift blame (especially to his partner) or try to defend his mistakes. He simply acknowledges when he has made a mistake, apologizes for it, learns from it and works to make it right. Saying, “I am sorry,” is not a big deal to him. He knows it doesn’t make him any less of a man to say it. In fact, saying he’s sorry makes him more of a man because it demonstrates he has the confidence, courage and integrity to admit his faults and seek to correct them.

 

8. A real man speaks his mind—always.

 

He is not afraid or timid to say what’s on his mind. He will say no without fear whenever he doesn’t agree with something. He will debate you on topics he is not comfortable with without losing his cool. He will be straightforward and talk to you as an equal, then allow you to make your own conclusions or take whatever action you wish. This does not mean he is indifferent or treats women badly. He just doesn’t agree with her on everything. He knows a “Yes-man” is no man at all.

 

9. A real man stands up for the relationship.

 

Sometimes friends, family and even total strangers ask inappropriate questions or make inappropriate remarks about your relationship, such as saying you are not a “good couple.” In such cases, a real man stands up for himself and defends the legitimacy and integrity of his relationship. Even when he is among his peers, he speaks up and stands his ground in defense of his relationship. This proves he can express himself in the presence others, protect his woman and act like a grown man.

 

10. A real man pursues other passion(s) that don’t involve his partner.

 

He has enough going on in his life to keep him busy. That means he is, at least, passionate about one other thing besides his relationship. The relationship does not define him. He will give you your space and you must give him his. He is a confident, ambitious go-getter. He’s a real man!

 

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Guys Listen, This is What Women Really Look for in a Man...No. 5 is Very Important

It is not all about six-packs or being very endowed, here are very important qualities real women want in a man.

 

What do women really want? It’s an age old question and most guys are keen to know what qualities ladies want in a potential lover.

 

But the great news is you can forget spending hours in the gym honing your six-pack or fretting about schlong size.

 

New research has revealed the top five qualities that attract women the most – and you may be surprised by the results. The team at Superdrug Online Doctor surveyed 1,712 people from the UK and the US to find out what really matters when it comes to romance.

 

And it turns out there are more important things than a pretty face, because the thing that turns her on the most is your sparkling personality.

 

Coming in a close second was good looks followed by a guy’s education, profession and finally his income.

 

In an exclusive interview with Daily Star Online, a Superdrug spokesperson said: “Being able to carry a conversation, sharing common interests and having personality can be the difference between an awkward, uncomfortable dinner date and really hitting it off.

 

“Overwhelmingly ‘personality’ came back as the number one asset vetted before changing a relationship status.

“The second-leading dating factor was ‘looks’ likely because the first things we notice about a person is his or her appearance: height, style and attractiveness.

“These two elements ranked far above the other three options (education, profession, and income).

"While still relevant, they didn’t seem to matter nearly as much as other surface-level traits.”

 

Most important qualities in a partner:

 

1. Personality

 

2. Looks

 

3. Education

 

4. Profession

 

5. Income

Source: Dailystar

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10 questions virgin girls ask themselves before they sleep with the man for the first time

The first sex experience is a very exciting and serious one in the lives of young ladies. They get many questions about the act and worry about tons of things. Some of them are revealed here.

10 things virgins think about, before having the first sex:

Ladies are worried about many things. This new experience can be tricky and even scary. It has significant consequences for their lives. Men, if you know the questions they ask themselves, you can make it easier for them to make love to you and let you disvergin them.

1. Will it hurt?

Ladies are worried about the level of pain and discomfort they may experience during the first sex. Promise her to be careful and nice to make it pleasant.

2. How safe is it?

Mostly men are responsible for protection during sex. A virgin may not know a lot about it. So, take good care of her and use a condom to prevent the unwanted pregnancy and infections.

3. Should I remove the pubic hair?

Many girls worry about their looks in the private parts. If you compliment her as a woman and tell her how beautiful and desirable she is, she may relax and stop worrying about it.

4. How to make the process easier?

Being an experienced man you can get some lube to make the process less painful and easier for her.

5. What color of lingerie should I wear?

You can give her a hint on that one and tell her what your favorite color is.

6. Is it dangerous to have unprotected sex?

Men carry high responsibility for the women they get hooked up with. Even if you do not like having sex with condoms, you should insist on it. Buy good ones ahead of time and explain to her how to minimize all the risks.

7. Will his manhood be too small or too big?

This one is tricky. But girls do wonder about such things.

8. Will I get an orgasm?

Truth must be said some girls try and test their bodies on their own. So, they know what it’s like to have an orgasm, but they are not sure the man can help them with that.

9. Should I take a condom with me?

You can help her to worry less and assure that you prefer protected sex and will provide all it takes for it.

10. Am I too fat?

Girls may worry about their looks and have insecurities about their bodies. Tell her how beautiful she is and that will help her settle the matter. If you know the questions she asks, it may be easier for you to help her make the positive decision!

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Confession Of A Frustrated Lagos Based Housewife-“I Did This Since He Could Not Sexually Satisfy Me”

I am Evelyn, a lagos Based housewife and I have a very special issue that needs to be dealt with urgently, it is about to ruin my marriage of over 8 years.

I and my husband had a very beautiful life together, but that was until two years into our marriage, just after we had our first and only child.`

Danny as I fondly call him had lost his job then and would not have me work, he said it was his duty to provide for his family and believed that our child would need all my attention.

I used to be a marketer at one of the leading banks, while he worked with an oil firm but was retrenched due to certain unclear circumstances.

The quest for a job took a toll on my husband because we had debts to offset, so many bills left unpaid.

During that period, Danny will go out very early only to come back very late at night. The time spent however, did not reflect on our economic status.

We were not begging but we could tell that the family was digging too deep into its reserves.
After about a year and no serious job forthcoming, Danny decided he would go into a business of his own.

He started a business with the little we had saved over the years, he gave it his all, time, body and soul.

Danny could be very determined and that was the spirit he put into the business, however, it was our home that suffered the brunt.

Gradually I began to feel the detachment from him, he was more connected with making the business boom, there was little or no time for me and my little boy.

Our sex life was almost dead and when we did have anything intimate it was shabby at best.

He gave numerous excuses of why his performance had drastically come to an all time low, from business thoughts to the Lagos stress that is always tied to the ever present gridlocks for no just cause.

I cried severally because i was starved not just of both love and s/.ex, perhaps you might think I am vain but please don’t judge me till you have walked a mile in my shoes.

Danny could not hold his own for even five minutes, no sooner than he gets in and the milk is spilt. He said he had tried several things but they just don’t work.

For months and then over a year, things continued the same way. After a while, I gave up totally, resigning to fate.

Good thing is, the business started to grown miraculously, but the more it grew, the distant my husband became from me.

There was no day without a meeting, the weekends were spent virtually at his business place, only on rare occasions did I and my son go visiting there.

I was idle, and perhaps that was the avenue for certain things to happen, things I am not so proud to mention.

The most crazy of all that I began to indulge in, is basically living on socio-media. While I bore my heart in subtle Tweets and Facebook posts, I wore a hypocritical look on Instagram.
My photos bearing faked smiles, hid my inner torment, but there was this guy who could read between the lines, he introduced himself to me as George.

He was about 10 years younger than myself and twenty years younger than my husband. But he was smart and witty, I was caught off-guard.

George made me pour my heart to him in such a way that I felt exposed, and before I could blink, we were dating.

From internet chats we advanced to calls and texts, before I knew it, I was inviting this young man into my matrimonial home.

He was young but George sure did know how to treat a lady, there was never a boring moment with him, as his wits exuded effortlessly.

Soon I was almost forgetting that I had a husband, it was more like living with yet another flat mate, as all we did whenever my husband got back from work was brief chats (boring) and off to bed.

Whenever he got into his room to sleep, I got talking with George under the guise of staying with my tender son. We would do all sorts of crazy stuffs over the phone and I felt like a teenager again.

Please don’t blame me at all as my body is not a stone. The first day I and George made love, it stirred a wild passion in me and I could not get enough of him. I would invite him over on certain weekends, we would meet up at his place on other days. One faithful day after making fun I used woman trick to know what he is using to satisfied me for 40 minutes with his big rod because I won’t lie to you I always scream ‘is enough, please am satisfied’ but this guy rod doesn’t get tired.

Thank God George revealed his secret to me and I quickly try to find George’s big rod and 40 minutes performance secret. Immediately I got it, I dropped George because I still love my husband and I believe that he can do better too with this secret. Click Here For the secret (Read Testimonials Of Other Men)

Few days after, my husband birthday came up and I presented him a gift. You care to know the kind of gift that I presented to my husband?

Hmm! I presented George big rod and 40 minutes performance secret, my husband asked me what it is though and I explained to him that my friend’s husband is using it to satisfied her and that is the secret of their happy home.

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Joys of courtship, fears of marriage

The period of courtship is very important and paramount in every relationship because it is the period of knowing each other, the period of knowing the character and attitude that each partner possesses.

This is also the time of knowing each other’s background, family members and also the time for each partner to prepare for greater responsibilities.

According to an online source, Courtship is the period in a relationship which precedes engagement and marriage or the establishment of an agreed relationship of a more enduring kind. During this time, there are likely to be many challenges because it is a time of understanding each other. Most often, partners detect the weakness(s) of one another during this period. It is also a period during which a couple develops a romantic relationship before getting married. Each intending partner gets to know how to manage or tolerate the temperaments of the spouse, since up-bring and exposure, education and mindsets are not the same from person to person.

On the other hand, Marriage, according to an online free dictionary, is a legally and formally recognized union of a man and a woman. Similarly, it is a process by which two adults make their relationships public with consents of parents or other witnesses. In some cases, Courtship leads to marriage. However, there is a clear distinction between marriage and wedding.

The utmost aim of every partner is to end up in marriage with man or woman of their choice, but sometimes fail to understudy what marriage entails.

Interestingly, most young person in contemporary days, look forward to that day of wedding but do not know about the challenges of marriage. Suffice to note here that being mature is more important in handling all these responsibilities either in “marriage or courtship”.

As for Courtship, it allows intending spouses to practice­, in a limited way, the roles and the virtues needed in marriage, while marriage permits them to practice the roles and virtues necessary in living together for life.

In proper courtship, it is necessary for the partners must recognize their first righteous desires and ambitions.

In conclusion, by the most courtship metamorphose into marriage most of the physical growth of each partner would have already occurred. More importantly, the level of friendship that the couples have shown during courtship, goes a long way in determining how smooth the marriage ride will be, beginning from their wedding night.

Then, every intending spouse should bear in mind that the main purpose of courtship is to avoid troubles in marriage and to know each partner’s behaviors, attitudes, mannerism, temperament and interests better before getting married. To the singles in courtship, please note that marriage is not the place to start your studies, rather courtship. And to the married, do have blissful years together for life.

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Check out the marriage proposal everyone is talking about (photo)

Dione and Zack’s proposal has been tagged one of the best proposals ever!

The two who have been friends for 5 years and are really close were on Steve Harvey’s TV show Zack pulled up his surprise.

Before Dione start to speak about her business they’ve come for, Steve Harvey reveals to her that her friend has something to say to her.
Then Zack leads her to a part of the studio and delves into what will now go down in the history of proposals as one of the best ever. “Our friendship means more to me than words can really express,” he began. “I’ve seen you grow, I’ve seen you develop into this awesome individual, I’ve seen you develop this passion that you have for the young people; and even [with] you kids, I think you are an awesome mother. “So we have come to the show, you know, to talk about the business [but] there are some other things I’d like to share with you.
CLICK THE LINK FOR THE VIDEO https://youtu.be/sP7vr11l6-o
“I remember Angel [One of Dione’s kids, we guess] at the camp saying ‘oh, maybe you should hook with my mom,’ and our circumstances at the time will not allow us entertain anything more than what we are developing, and that’s our great friendship.”

At this point, Dione was pretty much blushing, smiling shyly and nodding at the same time. “That’s the past and our circumstances and situation has changed,” Zack pressed on. “So in this new season, I didn’t bring you on the show just to talk about your business. I brought you on the show to tell you that I’m crazy in love with you; that I love you far beyond our friendship, Dione.
“I don’t wanna be your friend anymore, I want to be your friend and much more. “Dione, I want to be your protector, I want to be your provider, I wanna show our 3 boys, if you’ll have me, I wanna show them how to love a woman, I want to give them an example of what it is to love a woman, I want to teach them how to be there, how a man takes care of the house, how to cut the yard. “I want to show them things we do as men, but most of all, I want to love you properly. And be that example for them. “So instead of just talking about it, I came here today to be about it.” Really, at this point, as you’ll see in the video below, Dione was pretty close to emotional tears.

Who wouldn’t be? “I love you beyond measure, I want to give my all to you, and I ask that you do the same, Dione. “So I brought you here today…” Then, Zack did the magical thing – reaches into his inner chest pocket, goes on a bent knee, and whips out the wedding band, as Dione gasps in an expression of sweet surprise. The crowd was wild with applause and screams at this point, Dione was all smiles, as she interjected with surprised sentences such as “oh my God” and “are you serious?”
Then, all the noise and happy exclamations ceased, as Zack, with that look in eyes, popped the question, “Dione McDurfin, will you marry me” “Oh my God, yes,” she responded, and the studio erupted again. “I’m so glad you said yes,” said Harvey to Dione after the couple shared a very tight embrace and the studio was quiet again.

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5 types of single girls you will find in Lagos, no 5 is certain

Apparently, there is nobody who has never been single in his/her lifetime.

Beautiful happy black woman smiling

Our personality is most shown out when we are single and we want almost everyone around us to know that our behavior at that particular moment is based on the fact that we are single.

We might not be aware about how we behave and handle things but people actually observe and they can tell us our kind of character which even if we know it’s true, we will not admit.

Below are kind of single girls that really do exist.

1. Types that do not want to be in a relationship
These are the first sets of single people you meet out there, they never want to hear anything about relationship, and they believe they are done with falling in love and failing again. They see things only in their own perspective, doing their things alone with no relationship disturbance. They are done with relationship and never want to have a partner.

2. Types that do not care about relationship anymore
This type of girls doesn’t care about what anyone thinks, they do whatever they want and they prefer being flirty probably because they have been hurt a lot of time. They never want to commit, so you find them with a new partner every time but when you ask them, they will simply tell you that they don’t care for romance, and letting you realize that seeing someone with them doesn’t mean they are single, they are just in for the one night stand love and the next day you will see them with another person.

3. Types that are eager to be in another relationship
They are referred to as emotionally single people because they are actually not happy being single and when they see their friends going on fine with their relationship they always wish they were the one in love. They always wish they were in a relationship and complains about being single, they always want to get hooked up in another relationship because they cannot handle being single.

4. Types that are over-selective
These are the types you always find selecting and yet they will never find one person because of the way they are selective. They complain about this not good, that not good, they always compare whoever comes next to them with their “ex” which apparently will make them almost single for the rest of their life.

5. Types that are in love with their job.
The “Job lover” are the types girls that are addicted to their work and feel that anything that has to do with relationship is a distraction. They are hooked up with one man and they are too serious to give the person attention and so automatically they are single.

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Reader’s letter: “I gave my egg to another woman and what happened next is amazing!”

Some readers have problems and need your help to get out of trouble. However, this lady brings us inspiration by her life story. Why has she become the egg donor? Read and rejoice with her!

“When I did my first egg donation, I was in my early twenties and my best friends had just found out they could not have children of their own. I offered to donate my eggs to them, but they went a different route. But it got me thinking about helping others.

So, I went online to find a good clinic for the process. The first donation moved rather quickly. It seemed to be only a month from signing the contract to getting the procedure completed. Surely, I needed the time to recover after the procedure and felt bad for few days. But that was not important.

Here is what really mattered: the pregnancy took and the amazing couple was blessed with gorgeous twins, a boy and girl.

I was lucky enough the meet and hold the babies when they were under a month old. Seeing how happy that family is has changed my life. I made a difference. They wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for me donating. If I had decided against a known donation, I would have never known if they had even able to get pregnant. It’s a success story that I have kept very close to my heart. After having my own baby, I decided to help someone else again. Now, I was just matched for a third time with another caring, funny, positive and grateful couple.

I plan to help as many people in the limited time as allowed. If I just lose my eggs anyway, why not give the gift of life to a family that is willing to go through so much to have a child to love of their own?”

The story of this woman inspires. She has the rare ability to feel what others experience suffering the childless marriage. Several kids were born through her generosity and many destinies changed!

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He walked her home from school for 5 years, check out what happened next (Photo)

They planned as college lovers, read what happened to them

They started out as college lovers. They walked home together hand in hand from school.

College couple who planned their life while walking But they don’t just walk, as teenagers; this couple knew what they wanted for each other.

They planned their lives.

“We met in college. He walked me home from school every day for five years. We would talk about everything: how many kids we wanted, how we wanted to raise them, our roles in the home, where we wanted to live, and even where we wanted to go on vacation.” And eventually they got married and everything they have experienced in their marriage isn’t new to them. Why? “So there really haven’t been many surprises.

A lot of couples only seem to talk about important things if they’re forced to make big decisions. And there can be this moment of: ‘I didn’t really know you.’ And there’s pressure to make a decision. And that’s when the biggest arguments seem to happen. Has anything changed about them? “We’ve luckily managed to avoid that because it’s all been discussed before. We’ve been married for fifteen years but we still walk home together from work every night. We’re actually doing that right now.”

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You should know these 10 things, if you can’t have an orgasm

Only 57% of women experience an orgasm with their partners almost every time. Others, well we all have our bad days or nights. Why? What’s the main difference between an orgasm and sneezing? What to do, if you just do not feel it, should you still hope?

Lots of women are familiar with this scenario. Your focusing so intently on the, uh, “destination” can often mean forgetting to enjoy the journey. Moreover, far too many women have never reached an orgasm with a partner or at all, so what does this orgasm-centric outlook mean for their sex lives? So, let’s just find out what experts, family medicine physician and clinical sexologist Dr. Rachael Ross, and sex therapist Vanessa Marin, can tell us about not having an orgasm.

1. Some women can easily reach an orgasm on their own, but never with a partner

A survey published in the April 2015 issue of Cosmopolitan mirrored these findings: 8 percent of women between the ages of 25 and 29 reported having never had an orgasm, compared to 16 percent of 18- to 24-year-olds.

2. No, not every woman who can’t orgasm feels like it’s the end of the world

When one woman listens to every single advice, another just gets back to business. The solution is somewhere in-between: perhaps it’s better not to get obsessed with it, while still trying some new things.

3. Your orgasm depends on a lot of factors

Whether it’s a mental, emotional, even a physical problem, the point is there isn’t anything ‘wrong’ with you that can’t be fixed. Not reaching orgasm is an issue for many women and doesn’t mean they will never reach an orgasm. The most common mistake is to become obsessed with having an orgasm instead of just enjoying sex.

4. Sex still can be great without an orgasm

“It’s just not something that I really feel is missing in my life,” say a woman who never had an orgasm. “It’s normal, I don’t go out of my way to make it happen.” Dr. Ross agrees: some women will just never reach the big O — you can still enjoy sex.

5. A lot of women just fake it

67% of women who took part in a survey admitted to having faked an orgasm. 97% of them did it to spare their partners’ feelings, to end sex more quickly, or both. Well, we’ve already told you why you should not do that.

6. Communicating with your partner is a key Try to direct him with precise instructions.

Men love this. If you’re too shy and can’t get your mouth to say it, pull him toward you, move him to where you want him to be.

7. Misinformation about the female orgasm can also make it a lot more difficult to orgasm with a partner.

We don’t talk about female orgasm very openly in our society. There are a lot of guys out there who are well-intentioned and want to be good partners, and they have a lot of misinformation too. Or you know, they may have had partners in the past who always faked it, so they think that they’re doing things right.

8. Medication could be messing with your orgasm

If you’re currently taking antidepressants or anti-anxiety pills, this could be stalling your climax or preventing you from becoming aroused at all. Ask your doctor about other medicine.

9. Don’t be afraid to consult a sex therapist

How do you know when it’s time to reach out for professional help? With the orgasm thing, when it comes to the point where it has consumed pretty much all of your sex life, if it’s consuming your thoughts, you really need to seek help. 10. You can have control over your orgasm A belief that orgasm should just happen by itself is a common mistake among many women. It’s not a reflex like sneezing— your body just inherently knows how to do it and it just does it without any intervention. Orgasm is like a skill. It’s something that you have to learn, you have to practice, you have to figure out how it works.

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If you, men, give your wives these 5 things, Bible promises you to be happy in marriage

5 things Bible teaches husbands to give to their wives

Secular psychologies and coaches give plenty of advice on marriage, but God is the Author of this institution. He is the One, who knows exactly how husbands should treat their wives. Here what He says about it in the Bible.

5 things husbands should give to their wives:

That’s not the human opinion, but the higher decree from the Lord and we find them in the Scriptures.

1. Esteem

Wait, we thought wives should respect their husbands! Yes, they should, but it has to be mutual. Here is what the Word of God says: “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect…” 1 Peter 3:7” God created men and women in His own likeness and image.

This means He is in us and His image is worthy to be honored and respected! It also means that husbands, who put down or even beat their wives, show huge disrespect for their Creator.

2. Tenderness

“Do not be harsh with your wife.” Colossians 3:19 It means men should not use harsh words or bad language, when they talk to their wives. They should not be overloading those with work and be attentive to their needs. God is her father. You are married to the daughter of the King of Kings.

Do you think He would be pleased, if you abuse or hurt her? Surely, men have the power to treat women as they wish, but they are to answer before God for it.

3. Honor

“Honor your marriage; keep it pure by remaining true to your wife in every way.” Hebrews 13:4 Do not only expect to be honored by your wife, but give it back to her. Remember, you reap what you sow!

4. Loyalty

“Do not be captivated by other women” Proverbs 5:20 God created one woman for one man. That’s His plan. If you wish to please the Lord, stick with it. That does not involve only physical intimacy. You should stay focused on your wife, catering to her emotional, financial and other needs. Do not waste yourself on other ladies.

5. Admiration

“Call your wife ‘blessed’ and praise her.” Proverbs 31: 28-29 Praise and good words build up a happy marriage. Praise her for what she does for you, do not take it for granted.

God knows what is good for you. If you follow His tips for marriage, it is bound to be happy and successful!

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